The Modern Gentleman: A Guide to Essential Manners, Savvy and Vice

 by Phineas Mollod and Jason Tesauro

This contains excellent thoughts about conducting oneself socially, manners, conversation, style, how to tie ties, how to order drinks, how to be suave on a date, all sorts of things that a gentleman would want to know. Not impressed with the sex part (cheesy!) but hey you can’t win ‘em all.

Get this along with Dressing the Man: Mastering the Art of Permanent Fashion - as it is, not enough blokes (especially in Singapore, I've noticed) take care & time to dress well.

Stop wondering why your women look across the shores for companionship. Stop thinking that your only option is a mail-order bride. Things can be better. The change begins WITHIN.